What leave can I get if my child dies?
For employees in England, Scotland or Wales whose child has died before turning 18, or who have had a stillbirth after 24 weeks of pregnancy.
Applies to: England, Scotland, Wales Last checked against official sources: 30 September 2026
Different in Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland
Rules may be different in:
- Northern Ireland: Check nidirect for Northern Ireland
Key facts
- 2 weeks' leave
- Day-one right
- Within 56 weeks
Leave and pay at a glance
There are two separate rights. You may get one, both or neither, depending on your job.
| Parental Bereavement Leave | Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay | |
|---|---|---|
| How much | Up to 2 weeks for each child | £194.32 a week, or 90% of your average weekly earnings if that is lower (2026/27) |
| Who can get it | Employees, from day one in the job | Employees with at least 26 weeks' service who earn on average £129 a week or more |
| Time limit | Must end within 56 weeks of the death or stillbirth | Ask in writing within 28 days (see below) |
Pay is paid in the same way as your wages, with tax and National Insurance taken off.
Who counts as a parent
You may qualify if you are:
- the child's parent: biological, adoptive, or a parent of a child born to a surrogate
- the partner of the child's parent
- someone who had day-to-day care of the child, or whose partner did, if the child lived with you for 4 weeks in a row up to the death
The pay conditions in detail
To get pay, you must:
- have worked for your employer without a break for at least 26 weeks up to the end of the "relevant week"
- earn on average £129 a week before tax, over an 8-week period
- still be employed on the day of the death or stillbirth
How to take the leave
You can take 1 week, 2 weeks in a row, or 2 separate weeks. A "week" means your normal working week. For example, if you only work Mondays and Tuesdays, a week of leave is 2 days.
If you were already on maternity, paternity or shared parental leave, bereavement leave starts after that leave ends. It must still finish within the 56 weeks.
Telling your employer
| When you take leave | Notice you must give |
|---|---|
| Within 8 weeks of the death | Before you would normally start work on the first day |
| From week 9 to week 56 | At least 1 week before the leave starts |
Tell your employer the date of the death, when the leave starts and whether it is 1 or 2 weeks.
To claim pay, ask in writing within 28 days, starting from the first day of the week you are claiming for. Give your name, the dates you want pay for and the date of the death or stillbirth. You also sign a declaration that you are eligible, online, in writing or on your employer's form.
Your job is protected
While on leave you keep your employment rights, including pay rises, building up holiday and returning to your job.
If you work in Northern Ireland
Different rules apply to bereavements on or after 6 April 2026. You can take 2 weeks' leave from your first day in the job. The right now also covers miscarriage before 24 weeks, including the partner who would have been a parent. Pay is the same weekly rate. nidirect says being new to a job or not having a full pay history should not stop you getting pay.
Related guides
- Can I get bereavement leave from work?
- Can I take time off for a family emergency?
- What do I need to do when someone dies?
- What is neonatal leave?
Where these figures come from
Get it done
This takes you to the official service, which is free to use.
See how to claimCommon questions
Who can get Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay?
Can I take parental bereavement leave as separate weeks?
How much notice do I need to give for parental bereavement leave?
Official sources
- 1.Parental bereavement: what you're entitled towww.gov.uk/parental-bereavement-pay-leave/what-you-are-entitled-to
- 2.Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay and Leavewww.gov.uk/parental-bereavement-pay-leave
- 3.Parental bereavement: check if you're eligiblewww.gov.uk/parental-bereavement-pay-leave/check-if-youre-eligible
- 4.Parental bereavement: how to claimwww.gov.uk/parental-bereavement-pay-leave/how-to-claim
Checked against GOV.UK on 30 September 2026
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